April 30, 2019

The Secret

Remember that best-selling book, “The Secret?” I was actually gifted the book, but have yet to read it years later. It’s in my pile, but it never seems to make it to the top.   I am likely doing myself a great disservice. Maybe all the people around…

Bride and Bridesmaid
April 18, 2019

The Power of Pause in Marriage

My wedding rehearsals are full of little bits of instruction, trivia, announcements, and well – rehearsing. It’s not a science, but it does make life easier. One announcement I make is, of course, to not lock your knees.   Fainting isn’t fun,…

Marriage Guarantee Sticker
March 28, 2019

The Guaranteed Marriage

“How do we guarantee that our marriage will be ok?” It’s a question often asked of Central Ceremonies, and the answer isn’t exactly what you want to hear.  There isn’t a guarantee. There is no such thing. In…

November 29, 2018

The One and Only Love Boat

Once, in the presence of my marriage counselor, I told my husband that I’d never marry again. My husband was insulted. While our counselor placidly listened, he said the comment hurt his feelings. I didn’t mean to hurt his feelings, but it is…